The Plus Size Wedding Journey Begins: First Thoughts

Wedding season has been upon us for months already! So needless to say the invitations have been flying in the mail! In the next few weeks I will be attending a good friend from college’s wedding. As fashion designers, of course I went over and helped her alter her wedding gown! (Which is to die for! I can’t wait to show you pictures) I am I also helping my best friend re-vamp a relatives wedding gown- its going to look amazing when it is done!

This left my with my first thoughts about my own wedding. Of course there are always alterations when it comes to wedding gowns, I mean no one is built like a mannequin! But being a future plus size bride sometimes there are even more alterations! I cannot lie when I say I am a little nervous about finding the perfect dress. It is going to be a challenge because I am plus size, but it might be even more of a challenge as I am anything but ordinary and will want a more unconventional wedding gown.  I mean, I am a plus size fashion designer by trade, so of course I could make it myself- but as any bride would tell you- who wants that stress?!? But it is in my back pocket if necessary.

My best friends engagement photos came out magnificent! I am so happy for her! She is getting married a year from now! Being in her bridal party- needless to say there will be party plans in the near future for her!! As for me and my guy, we decided against engagement photos. He wasn’t really into them, and working in the fashion industry I already have a bunch of photographers that I work with to choose from- so I don’t need to “try” anyone out- that’s a bonus of working in the fashion industry- I already know some of the people who I can and will work with to help put my wedding day together!

Then of course I stumbled onto Pinterest and got hooked! Its hard not to! I already know I want a more alternative wedding: Gothic candles, white roses, non traditional wedding gown. I can see it already!

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I must say the fun part is the planning. The not so fun part is the money planning. What matters most? Where should the money go? This is another reason we aren’t rushing down the aisle- getting married takes money! (And so does buying a house- which we are currently working on!) Besides the money, like a fashion show- it takes time to gather all the necessary things to create the vision in my head and bring it into a reality. The combat boots I am planning to wear under my gown! The wedding gown! The venue! The center pieces! The list goes on and on! Why rush? We have already been together 5 years, (yes, I cannot believe its been 5 years already!) what is 2 more? It’s not like I work 2 jobs, and am building a plus size fashion brand or anything! This stuff takes time, and money. Time I have, money I am hustling to make!

Have you been a plus size bride? What were your best moments? What were you most worried about? Money? The Dress? The Honey moon?

I would love to hear from you!

As always- stay strong and rock on!

-A

 

 

Manus x Machina: Fashion in an Age of Technology AND a surprise!

Hello again!

So a few weeks ago I was able to find time on my crazy business trip in NYC to visit the famous Metropolitan Museum of Art! And of course I had to go see the ManusXMachina: Fashion in the Age of Technology exhibit! How could I come all the way to NYC and not go see it? Last summer, I was able to see the Met’s exhibition of China: Through the Looking Glass, which was equally amazing!

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The exhibit was breath taking! There was so much to see and admire. Some of these designs were 3D printed, others were a work of art in their complex design and linear structure; there were all feats of fashion. I, myself love the linear looks below, they reminded me of the movie Tron. While some of the others were the Elizabethan concept of tight pleating and twisted it into geometric shapes. It was incredible.

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And then there was the tiny texture and detailing. My photos really do not do these dresses any justice. In person there was just so much more you could see, even the tiniest details made a huge impact. This texture below looks like tiny flowers. I cant even fathom the amount of hours these design took to bring to life. If I were to guess it would be over 100! If not more!

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And of course there was other art to admire! We did end up spending the entire day at the Met! 6 crazy hours (it was a Sunday after all) of walking through those halls filling my mind with inspiration! Its clear I am drawn towards bright colors, bold graphics, hard lines and shape! And I must say I was just drawn to this painting of lipstick. What you cannot tell from my photos, is each of the paintings below are easily at lest 10×10′ Feet! They were huge!

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If the art wasn’t inspiring enough, what I didn’t mention was before we went to the Met, we started off our day at Starbucks, my favorite coffee house. I had just worked through most of my business trip and finally had a day off! It was our last day in NYC and I was not going to miss the Met exhibit. However, little did I know when we got to that Starbucks my life would change!

My boyfriend of 5 years usually accompanies me on my NYC business trips. Although finding time to spend together with a crammed work schedule is a bit challenging, we find the smaller moments together to make it count. Like getting pizza at 2am after a midnight showing of an AMC movie! (Which we did!).

So needless to say when we sat down upstairs in Starbucks, I got the shock of my life. And you know how everything in NYC is vertical, and being upstairs in Starbucks allowed for more privacy for the two of us.

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And there it was! A beautiful, purple, skull (yes SKULL!) engagement ring!! And right on the top of my cup were the words, “Marry me?” and of course, I just had to reply my response on the cup! I said YES!

I was over the moon! And the ring fit!!! Which, I was super excited about, because I have huge hands and I was afraid it wouldn’t fit. (I did find out later the ring was a size 10, which was perfect!).

I had an amazing business trip. I had the best business events, and totally kicked ass at the Curvy Con and Full Figured Fashion Week (read all about that here!)

I couldn’t wait to go home later that night and tell my parents and friends! This is surely one business trip I will never forget!

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Have a comment? Have you been to the Met? To NYC? I would LOVE to hear from you!

With the happiest wishes and heart!

-A